I forget this chinese novel's title when I really want to read it. So, the FL had three lifetimes, twice reborn -and transmigrated-. She transmigrated into a villain in a novel and when she gained a consciousness, she made a deal with the ML. Unfortunately, they both died. The FL then got reborn again. A spoiler said the ML would remember their past lifetime as time passed. The setting is modern, but somehow they still have those kind of military families and wearing qipaos (?)