I am the type who can't be flirted with I think.. I'd rather have deep conversation about anything rather than listening to a guy asking me have i eaten 3 times a day, and flirt with unskilled words that got me confused. I like man in action way better.. so am I unromantic? You know what I mean right? Have you feel that way? Well I have to admit... all my type in novels and comics prone to be yandere? And the villains.. what to do. Is it wrong that i am attracted to man with a past?
Pls, for your sanity, separate your real life type from your novel/manhwa/anime/whatever-entertainment-medium type.
I think you meant to say aromantic. I don't know about other people, but for me it was because I was never really attracted romantically to anybody. Any romantic relationship I've seen with my own eyes felt like it was people just conforming to the societal expectations, I guess. I just couldn't understand how people in the real life could feel romantic love. It was interesting, because I love romance (well-written romance that is, not majority that is the pile of trash that litters the site) novels. I thought I'd get it when I grew older, but I never really did. Hell, I once tried dating and it didn't work out as I felt as if I was forcing myself. I then grew older and accepted that people are different and I am different
Romance isn't small talk lol or excessive flattering, plenty people hate small talk and are still romantic. Romance is holding hands, fine dining, dancing, looking at the stars, big gestures, making love... also mecha docking, lasers, laser sharks, laser raptors, walking away from an explosion without looking...
You are the guy! Agree... so how do people make it works? W WEll of course... it is like getting crush on Robert Downey Jr as an Iron man but I won't expect myself fallen in love with a man similar to him. Or like fangirling over BTS and expecting my future husband will be like them... no.. but perhaps you are right... am i looking for something I don't even know what I am looking for..
It was just my little disclaimer. Don't mind it haha. Though on a more serious note, it's not strange at all to feel like the flirting and romance part is a bit too much. Some people want those more than others. While some want deeper connections, different ways to engage. Maybe someday, you'd meet your match and realize that "ah, so this is what I wanted". When that time comes, grab the opportunity. But, the fun in life is trying out all sorts of things. Maybe you'll find yourself having fun with flirting back for funsies xD
Flirting can be literally anything. It's just a game of back-and-forth. I once worked in a horse stable and was shoveling out the horse shit together with two other people who happened to be this super sweet couple. They flirted by trying to predict which horse poop the other would pick up, and then they'd either get there to it first or move out of the way depending on how much they wanted to tease the other that day. Forget corny pickup lines. Flirting. Can. Be. Anything. Even mucking out animal poop for shit pay, apparently.
W WEll of course... it is like getting crush on Robert Downey Jr as an Iron man but I won't expect myself fallen in love with a man similar to him. Or like fangirling over BTS and expecting my future husband will be like them... no.. but perhaps you a You are right. Thank you for your genuine answer. I wish that too. We life only once right.. perhaps I need to take it easy.. I'm glad talking with you!
eh~ what is romantic? different people different stroke~ have you ever see a couple who spend one hour just sit next each other no talk? repair bike together oh well the most annoying is a couple playing online game together on net cafe, leveling together, eat snack together, drink from same cup, discuss the tactical approach...... GOD DAMN! GO EXPLODE! just do thing together~ really it can annoy single dog ya know~
it's not wrong at all since it's pretty normal for people to fall in with 2d character or in your case a person with a past i have have never experienced or did anything like flirting or love but i had few crushes you know i like a character generally when there's like if their personality had some more growth or changes through out the story or if they had some tragic story and most of the character's i love and like happen to be some who is either a anti-hero persona or a crazy psychotic villain or villainess and there is this sick part of me which find those who went crazy beautiful and i feel like i might have loved them romantically so i can't say if you are 'unromantic' since i don't know what that defines but i can definitley say that it's not weird
I shit you not, I thought you’d written ‘aromatic’ and I was like what the heck is he going on about.