to be honest, it happened 1.5 years ago, but I still can't figure out how I feel. my mind says "girl, you should be happy, what's wrong with you?", but my heart says "I DIDN'T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN LIKE THIS! IT'S JUST BEEN 3.5 YEARS, AT LEAST WAIT UNTIL IT'S 5 YEARS! I JUST STARTED TO GET USED TO IT AS WELL.". I have no right to blame them either since they got married for financial reasons. I'm disabled, so my mother has to take care of me, that's why she can't have a work. I really missed the days they were divorced... me and my father would spend time together once a week, but now... since we see each other everyday, we don't really miss each other. so, what would ( or did ) you feel if this happen to you? note: I was devastated when they got divorced. another note: thankfully, I'm much better now, since I got used to it.
*playing Genesis's Land of Confusion as BGM* I think this song would fits what in my mind, esp the reff parts (^^i)
When a divorce happens, the marriage is no longer working. So if the two of them get married again it would be too weird.
That would depend on the 'why' they remarried. I'd be happy for them if it means my father has changed for the better for real. Otherwise, there can only be anger and confusion without a trace of joy. Heck, I probably wouldn't even attend the marriage ceremony.
I'd be confused and find everything unfamiliar/odd too so what you're currently feeling is totally understandable and valid tbh. I'm bad at both comforting and giving advice, but I hope everything will get better for you and your parents. You may think they got remarried for financial reasons and your disability but only they know the reason and there's also a chance that they remarried simply because they regretted their previous decision, so don't dwell into it too much and just focus on your happiness ♡
considering that one of them has passed, I would be hella confused/ horrified if it happened in my family. in your family, it would depend on why they split in the first place and why they decided to get back together. I'd probably be hurt and confused more than anything.
Hmm... I'll be very confused at first. Then anxious. If their remarriage results in something good, I'd be relieved but I don't think I'll be able to be genuinely happy. I'll always feel awkward. And if it doesn't, I'll be disappointed with them.
Confused pikachu I would have ?? Above my head for years Jokes aside, I'm afraid you can't do much about it. Try to adapt and make the mood as comfy as possible at home, so it goes smoothly and you regain your footing. After some practice, it'll become the usual state of things. After all, you can control your reaction to the situation, so try to stay as positive as possible and to help things move in a good direction when you get opportunities. Mandatory reminder: Your parents are adults who can make their own choices and you're not responsible for their decisions or their happiness. And all your feelings are valid, but make sure to check which feelings you want to act upon. Also, communication is key, if you trust your parents, be honest with them and talk the problems through. Much love and happiness to you.
I don't know what to say! I know that dragging a unhappy-ish relationship is not gonna do good for either of 2 parties. But I kinda have a complicated opinion about divorcing then getting remarried like it's kinda child's play. I know there might be some reason behind it, but if not and they just divorced out of impulse, then my opinion of your parents might not be good.
Well, if my parents divorced and got remarried, I'd be glad they're married again, but like... >.> why divorce in the first place, all that stress and sadness for no reason